Dec 21, 2023
Submitted by
Damalie Namale, Forerunner Counseling and Coaching
25 North Fullerton Ave, Montclair
info@forerunnercounseling.com
888.218.9731
Having a ‘voice’ is more than simply being vocal; it’s about embracing your unique identity, expressing your thoughts and feelings openly, and asserting your presence in the world. It’s standing up for what You believe in and making choices that resonate with your intrinsic values and aspirations.
Your voice is your authentic self, the essence of who you are. It’s not merely about speaking up; it’s about being heard and acknowledged. When you have a voice, you have the freedom to be yourself, to advocate for your needs, and to contribute to the world in a way that only you can.
Remember, your voice is a powerful tool of self-expression and a testament to your individuality. Yet throughout life, we tend to lose our voice
However, identifying that you’ve lost your ‘voice’ can often be a slow and subtle realization.
One of the most significant signs is the feeling of being unheard or misunderstood.
You may find yourself frequently agreeing with others, even when you don’t truly concur, just to avoid conflict. You might notice a growing sense of dissatisfaction or a feeling that you’re living your life on someone else’s terms, not your own.
It’s a silent acquiescence, a tendency to sideline your desires, beliefs, and opinions. You may start to feel a disconnection from your authentic self, a sense of being lost, or the feeling of wearing a mask to fit into societal norms.
Remember, it’s okay to feel this way, and you’re not alone. The first step towards reclaiming your voice is recognizing these signs and acknowledging your feelings.
Finding your voice doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a journey of self-discovery, experimentation, and courage.
The first step is to spend time in introspection. Understand your values, beliefs, and passions. These are the pillars that will support your unique voice.
Secondly, don’t shy away from expressing your thoughts and opinions, even if they are different or contrary to what’s popular. Your voice is your truth, and there’s nothing more empowering than speaking your truth.
Thirdly, write in a journal, start a blog, or use social media to practice expressing your thoughts.
Remember, everyone makes mistakes, and it’s okay if you stumble in the process. Each stumble is a step forward in finding your voice. Embrace these moments as learning opportunities. Constructive criticism can be a valuable tool for growth, but never let it drown your voice.
Lastly, surround yourself with people who uplift you and respect your voice. It is easier to find and use your voice when you are in a supportive environment.
Have You Lost Your Voice?
We are here to help identify how you lost your voice and how to find the strength and courage to find your voice again.